Danielle Masters wrote:I like to shop locally but I won't judge someone for attending a church, synagogue or mosque in another city, it's not really my business.
To my limited knowledge, no mosque in Lakewood, and closest synagogue is on Trisket. While
I am not faulting, what I am trying to convey is that churches and church going, serves both
a spiritual and social function in a city and community. As such they provide a reason/excuse
to leak out of a city or stay put. To understand the death of a city one has to look at any and
all reasons, and if one wants to stop the bleeding and save a city, one needs to understand
the place every element plays, then see if they can be corrected, ignored, changed whatever.
Not casting dispersions on any person, but I am always interested in why people change
churches, religions, even begin or stop, and how "spirituality" plays into these decisions. It
is interesting when you read Gary's comments about how churches are changing to keep up
with the times, but continue to loose parishioners. Makes me wonder, is it the change that
is actually causing the decline.
I remember my grandmother quitting the church when the minister spent more time on
social issues like abortion, than fire and brimstone as she grew up with as a Southern
Baptist. A woman that kept no playing cards in her house, had very little patience getting
dressed and hearing about that!
However the mega church is an interesting phenomenon that I think is impacting inner
ring suburbs as much as any mall ever did, probably more. As they grow and attract more
and more people, it has to be a drain on the inner ring suburbs, as social centers move
to regions that are 10-20 minutes from their homes, and they make new friends and
share social activities that live 10-20 minutes on the other side of the church.
While you have stayed in Lakewood becoming the perfect Lakewood story, of renting,
living, getting involved in schools, and activities, and finally buying your dream home,
others leak away, and the city needs to understand why.
When we started the Observer project, while there was no "secret agenda" there was a
desire, no need, to understand the flow in Lakewood, how it can be slowed, changed,
and even reversed. If we want Lakewood to continue. What is the "brand" of Lakewood
now, and by changing that brand do we attract new residents, or chase them away? As
stated in our mission statement, to l
earn and know more about Lakewood than anyone
has ever known about a city before. One reason why we felt discussion and ownership
of those words to be so important.
FWIW