chris richards wrote:
to set the record straight, i never used my blog to stalk you. i challenged the manor in which you park, and raised valid concerns about other things i saw and heard about in the city, most of which went unanswered aside from being attacked with anonymous comments saying that i must be for child molestation and also a drug addict. the first post i made on the issues was in frustration and anger and i quickly apologized for it. and when it came down to it, i was glad you responded to my query about your parking habits, but still disappointed that there really is no reason for them.
Chris
I agree with this paragraph, as a far representation, but it was also constructed to prove my point. Your blog was far fairer then most I run into. You provided me with a forum to discuss my parking problem. I cannot ask for anything fairer or better. From all of that you now have an opinion of me based on fairness and openness.
How can any public official ask for more than a similar opportunity. Would it be better, if I had printed the photos, or made the comments in private to everyone I met on the street? And Tom or others had no chance to hear the comment and no chance to respond?
chris richards wrote:
my point is that if people are trying to do good for the city, and are continually shot down, not necessarily on the deck, but by the city or by the citizens, why should they want to stay here when there are other communities that are more open to new ideas or just plain better ones?
Who is to say they are right? Honest? Good for me? Good for a majority of the city? and on and on. In the case of Tom Bullock how was that good for the city? I have thousands of photos of graffiti around town, never post it or print it, never. Why give anyone reason to tag anything? I have covered stories of graffiti without the images, as to not encourage or create the refrigerator art for the tagger. But Tom, in his innocence does an interview with a regional magazine, read heavily I am sure by "taggers" and basically says "Come to my ward, tag our homes, cars and buildings, and you can be on my facebook page."
Running a city is not black and right, right and wrong. Right now we are watching sides drawn, and discourse growing over schools. I believe that both sides are doing what they think is right for the city. Or I would hope so.
With the Tom Bullock thread, there are many dynamics. I know one poster in this thread is hoping for a person running against Tom. Another might even think of running against Tom. Are these people not trying to do what is right, or "good." If anyone bothered to notice, my posts are all in an effort for Tom to serve out his term, not get rid of him. All of my posts like his letter still link to his accounts and volunteer sites. This is not done of malice as you seem to infer, but one of one friend saying to another. PLEASE explain yourself. Why are you only using my city for a brief stepping stone? Why are you not keeping your promise?
These are all people trying to do good for their city, state country, or lives. Who is the star chamber that decides what is good? I think you have mentioned the library is not good, others think it is. Who is the judge. Could both be right? do we even need a judge? In a democracy are we not all judges?
I would also ask you to think about your post. Do you think I have extra pull with Tom because he is a friend, because I know him better than you? Do you think he would represent my businesses better than you because I know him better? That is what you are suggesting in saying he would take better care of Lakewood. He will remember us first. No politician should ever act that way, and one thing I like about Tom, is I cannot see him ever acting that way. Young, immature, overly passionate, green behind the ears, driven, career minded yes. But I do not believe he could be bought on any level.
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