Diane Helbig wrote:
Jim, PLEASE! Be honest. If the BOE had not included the citizens in the discussion and exploration you and your friends on the deck would have been all over it. This is a no win for all elected officials. if they make decisions based on information they have, they are wrong to not discuss it with the residents. If they ask the residents for input they are chided for not being able to make a decision.
As a member of the committee I find it insulting to read your comments. I didn't really hear any complaining when the 50 year committee met and made suggestions to the board. Maybe I wasn't paying attention then. Well, I am paying attention now.
The BOE will make a decision based on the information it receives from the committee. That committee has reached out to the residents of Lakewood to find out what issues matter most to them when deciding what to do about the 2 or 3 elementary issue. We now have that information from the people who bothered to attend the forum.
The committee will now review that along with FACTS about possible sites to come up with well reasoned, informed and intelligent suggestions for the BOE. And before we make any recommendations to the BOE we will once again ask the citizens to join us in reviewing the information we've discovered and weigh in.
After that recommendations will be made to the board at which time THEY will make a decision.
So maybe, just maybe, no one from the city or the BOE have come on the deck because they have nothing to say just yet. Nothing except this - the committee is doing their work and we (the BOE) have no information to share until we receive their report.
Now is that really so hard to understand?
Diane
I am being as honest as I know how. So you too let's be honest. No matter what any elected official or anyone that steps up says or does it is scrutinized, dissected and found right or wrong by all sorts of people. That is what a democracy is all about.
This is always my big laugh when speaking with government, elected and civic officials. As I love to tell the story when speaking with the mayor of Westlake about the Westlake Observer. He said "I am not sure that I like it when people can critique me or talk about me." I laughed and pointed out that at every bar, gathering place, park, backyard fence, wherever they are talking about you, arguing about you, and attacking you. With the Observer, at least you know who they are and have the rare opportunity to defend yourself. He agreed, it would be nice.
If you run for office or step into the light, get used to the heat and get used to explaining yourself. What online forums offer is a chance to set the record straight. And it would seem that those that cannot set the record straight run for the shadows, the cover, the back rooms, etc.
For the record, my "friends"* on the Deck have tried to get me fired four times, and have offered to sue me three times. EVERYTIME, I stood here, made my case, cleared the perception or didn't, but it was fair and it was open. I can ask for nothing more than that.
*friends - This is the sickest term to be misused, ever, and it plays to the weak minded shadows of the civic phantoms. One politician tells me he has 450 "friends" another tells me, 543 "friends" another civic groups tells me they are up to 325 "friends." Then they all in the same breath tell me they can block their "friends" without them even knowing! And that they do not have the time or even care about reading all of their friends updates! Friends?
For the record in my book, A friend will bail you out of jail at 3am without asking why or how much. The rest are acquaintances of varying levels. I have about 4 friends on the Deck.
Diane, the conversation happens in public, on the phone, in private, over dinner, but it is the forums, not the blogs, or facebook, or twitter that at least allow a person to jump in, and defend themselves, and their ideas.
It is the 21st Century.
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