Tim Liston wrote:Grades are an impediment to real learning. Real learning comes from loving the subject matter, whether it be history, math, or whatever. Grades teach kids to study for the purpose of getting a good grade, not for the purpose of loving to learn. Reading about whether A thru F is better than E/M/P/I makes no sense to me, it's such hair-splitting.
All kids are better at some things and worse at some things and we all know that. Grades are for parents and not for kids. Parents need to learn to encourage their kids to strive at things they love, not for a grade, but because by striving to succeed at whatever they enjoy they learn how to strive and succeed.
The best thing we can do for our children is (1) get rid of homework so they can go outside and play, do some work around the house, pursue subjects of interest or whatever, and (2) get rid of grades so kids can really fall in love with learning.
Tonight my kid memorized the 18 different shapes of leaves. In alphabetic order. Acerose, cordate, cuneate.... Looks like she'll get an "A" but she'll probably hate botany forever.
This is a really good post and I wonder what we each can do to push toward different legislation so that we can go back to focusing on loving to learn without the strict standards of NCLB. I am also relieved to see the posts stressing that competition for grades should not even be a factor. Children will naturally strive for their best when encouraged by their parents and the ultimate goal is of course for the intrinsic value of the feeling of accomplishment. Without that they won't succeed in life independently. And as Danielle pointed out, it is not uncommon to have one child in gifted and one with a learning disability, so if competition was pressed in the home, it would be devastating to the child with a disability. There have been studies done on birth order and it is far more common for the first child (absent a disability) to excel academically, but then it is also common for the next child to excel at something else, like sports for example because the natural inclination is to not want to compete with the older sibling. In cases where competition is pushed academically in a home, it actually pushes the one child to do worse so as not to compete and find something else to excel at. Students should not even know other students grades so that they aren't competing because as Diane pointed out, competing with yourself to do better is all that should count.
I don't love the new report cards but at the teacher's conference everything was spelled out in detail verbally and the teachers have always been open to communication for questions anytime. I find the teaching in the elementary schools excellent. I can see how much each child has learned just since September.
"Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive" Dalai Lama