I disagree.
I think that you are trying to assign a level of personal attack to this that is not appropriate to the situation - comparing the admission that they have been approached and are seeking to determine future solutions to adultery is just more emotional propaganda. Certainly a small paragraph at then end of a story on the arts is not a tabloid front page.
I, for one, would prefer that this be out in the open. That the comments be put on the record, that the issues be hashed out.
We cry when we don't know.. now we will cry when we know very near the first moment? That makes no sense to me.
John you are part of Lakewood, you ran for council. How did that release to the Plain Dealer help build the Lakewood Brand? I predict that everyone associated with this will be seen for what they really are. Not friends of Lakewood.
So if someone is thinking about coming to Lakewood we SHOULD want it public to build the brand, but if someone is considering moving we should not? Hmmm... Selective transparency?
If we want to "be the city that knows itself better than any other city" then I recommend full transparency... and instead of reacting in a negative, hostile way to full disclosure we should post thoughtful questions to determine the whys, hows, what-do-we-thinks, and what-do-we-dos' about a situation.
I think that it would be utterly irresponsible for ANY organization not to review all of the facts and details to determine the best solution for any given business problem. INCLUDING leaving Lakewood if that is the best way to further the mission of the business.
The level of rumor, innuendo, and the amount of disinformation that has been spread through this forum on this topic is disgraceful. And quite frankly, Jim, while you claim to be 'just a guy' you should really try to bear in mind that you ARE the publisher, you ARE in the spotlight, and what you say IS taken literally by many many people. When you engage in these discussions and further the half truths or the attacks it causes irreparable harm to the entity that you are attacking, as well as the Lakewood brand.
You may not have wanted to be Lakewood's poster child, but you are. And Lakewood will be much better served the sooner you realize that.
And John:
Thank you for clearing up the misconceptions - I sincerely think you will find that the majority of us in Lakewood are truly appreciative of your efforts and are more than ready to stand behind the Beck in whatever way necessary to help revitalize the center and keep it here in Lakewood.
Warm regards,
~Charyn