Jim Kenny wrote:Hello Mike: Thank you for sharing my interest in keeping discussion threads on topic, as we are all best served when that happens.
Thanks, too, for raising Brian Essi’s question of personal responsibility, as you’ve given me an appropriate platform to respond.
Please let Brian know that I’m disappointed, if not heartbroken by many of the actions taken of late by members of our community. I learned of one of these yesterday when told that criminal complaints had been filed against you. I was asked if I felt compelled to take such action as your perceived threats were directed at me too. I declined, as I believe any grievance with neighbors should start with a knock on the door or a phone call. I don’t know the people who filed the complaints, but I was told they don’t participate in the Deck and they don’t know you. I was told they acted separately and individually when filing their respective complaints, as both believed your questionable posts put them at grave risk.
Brian, if you read this post, my dad taught me to deal with grievances through engagement. He taught me to call the neighbor and understand him or her before rushing to a conclusion. If he were alive today and I told him that my neighbors filed criminal complaints directed at me, he would insist I embrace the feedback. He would also insist I apologize to anyone who felt wronged by my actions. He believed that humility gave us strength and honored the whole.
Did I participate in the BL postcard? I did. I wasn’t the author but I did proof read it before printing.
Cancers exist in every organism and organization. If we feed them, these grow stronger and cause damage. To acknowledge these exist helps us treat these faster, before these fester and cause harm. As I’ve stated before and it can be read in your screen capture on another post, removing these cancers makes a community stronger. The Deck is a community and is vulnerable to such a disease. I want to see it survive, so I apply the preventive medicine within my power.
My comment on Brian Essi’s claim that CCF has financial responsibilities to Lakewood based on S&P report: Any bonds issued by S&P would only be a fraction of the debt held by Lakewood Hospital Association. CCF might be jointly accountable for this fraction. They might not if CCF has agreements that override S&P stipulations. It’s hard to judge when we’re looking only at one section of what is clearly a longer, more detailed agreement. In other words, I need more context to offer you the judgement you’re looking for. However, if a fast, gut reflect judgement is what you need, post a new discussion thread asking another Deck member who has proven to have this inclination. I just believe being impulsive when presented with only a fraction of any details is inconsiderate to those participating in the thread; hence, why I avoid posting responses in some threads and why I'm selective about which discussions I participate.
Thanks for showing an interest in my perspective. I hope these responses help you understand me better.
Jim,
As you know, your late father's advice comes right from the Bible.
I respect you for being the only BL member coming on the Deck and having the courage and character to respond the way you have.
I also respect your for not participating in the concerted bullying effort to use the Police to violate my first amendment rights. Had this effort been successful, it would have been a violation of my Civil Right under 42 U.S.C 1983.
Nevertheless, I am disappointed to hear that you were at all involved in the misleading postcard and would be saddened even more if you did not take a more proactive role in forestalling the pending hoax if you knew it had been hatched.
Since you have apparently not been given the whole story by members of the BL community, let me clarify.
There were 11 BLers in all who made complaints to the Lakewood Police.
I received hate mail anonymously postmarked the day after my post---a post that Blers have twisted into something it was not.
I was told by one of three Policeman that two of complainants came from Ward 2 where I live---I don't know their names--its sort of Kafkaesque.
There were nine (9) others that that colluded and joined a formal complaint that was summarily dismissed by Police with no need for a response by me because there was no threat--perceived or otherwise, let alone a criminal threat. It was and is a total fabrication and hoax by BL. I say they colluded because the Lakewood Police Department's "Departmental Information" report documents that the successive complainants knew that a complaint was filed and then called or appeared at the Police Station to ad their names to it even though there was no threat and no crime to report or investigate. I am told that a "Departmental Information" report is one that the Police file when there is no suspect and no victim---the Police knew, without investigation, there was no crime.
The fabricators, in the order in which they joined the bullying effort, are: Mary Osborn (CCF nurse), Lind Beebe (School Board/Atty), Kathleen Haber (wife of LHA/LHF leader Ken Haber who must have known this was bogus), David Stein (the head of the business association and Lakewood Alive member), William Gaydos, Jack Palomaki (CCF doctor), Anne Palomaki, Yvonne Egerston, and Joel Egerston (two members of a local church where I am also a member, but considering leaving).
What makes matters worse is that Jay Carson, an attorney, likely knew about these bogus complaints and that the Police had contacted me when he concocted his calculated personal attack on me at City Council on Monday October 5, 2015---making false and general claims about me and other false statements---some that were proven false even by the LHA ad printed in the Lakewood Observer just this week which bore his name.
Please recall that the chief legal counsel for CCF attempted to silence me by threat and innuendo to my license to practice law and so did Jay Carson on the Deck by claiming that by commenting on the Deck I was somehow in violation of my duties to the Court merely because I am an attorney. So while I have never threatened Jay or his right to free spech, he has twice threatened me and mine.
Please note again that minutes after Jay Carson pretended at Council that he and his two children were being "threatened" by me (he was not even named in my post), he raced home to make a facebook post calling me a "bully" but then inviting me to his home and saying he was leaving the "light on" for me. What type of duplicitous coward could not even face me as a man and apologize for his horrid conduct as you now suggest.
So while Jay Carson, Jenn Pae, and the other BLers simultaneously participated in the hoax that I was somehow preventing them from speaking freely, they orchestrated a gang of bullies in an attempt to suppress my free speech by use of the Police in that bullying effort. It failed on is own even before I knew the full nature of alleged complaints or even who had made them against me.
So Jim, I know that it is heartbreaking for a gentleman like you to be associated with such blatant and transparent hypocrites.
As you can see above, it is not me who has wronged these people. Rather it is they who have wronged me.
I'm sorry Jim, but your suggestion that I reach out to such nasty, mean spirited and vindictive people who would relish another pretense to file complaints against me and do me harm is naïve.