Once a TRUST has been violated, it can rarely, if ever be restored

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Re: Once a TRUST has been violated, it can rarely, if ever be restored

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Brian

What if they never cared if we trusted them?

An odd way to show trust, is not trusting the other in any aspect of what is going on.

Another odd way to win it back, is to keep it secret after being given the vote of residents.

As proven with many other aspects in this town, "We don't care how you do it, just do something."

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Re: Once a TRUST has been violated, it can rarely, if ever be restored

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Matthew Lee wrote:Generally, when attributing a quote, it is cited somewhere (usually on the Internet, but could be anywhere). No worries if not, just trying to educate myself.

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Re: Once a TRUST has been violated, it can rarely, if ever be restored

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Jim O'Bryan wrote:Brian

What if they never cared if we trusted them?

An odd way to show trust, is not trusting the other in any aspect of what is going on.

Another odd way to win it back, is to keep it secret after being given the vote of residents.

As proven with many other aspects in this town, "We don't care how you do it, just do something."

You like quotes...
"If people are good only because they fear punishment, and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed."
Albert Einstein

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Jim,

You drifted, but I get your drift.

This thread was about why we should not trust CCF, but it could easily apply to why at least 48% of voters don't trust the government to decide the future of healthcare for them.

To answer your first question, if an elected leader never cared if we trusted him, then he induced votes by falsely representations---it would be equally hard to restore that "trust" because it was one sided to begin with i.e. not mutual.
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